Declarations For January 2025

Welcome to 2025! I’m sure you’ve read my blogs a few times on my take on new beginnings? The new year is a great time to reinvent yourself, set some realistic goals, clean out your life or bring in something new, dream a new dream, on and on it goes. I wish I could live in peoples’ heads just to know what they are thinking about the new year. I bet you that billions of decisions are made around this time of the year and everyone is hopeful that their decisions will bring them good fortune and happiness.

I am also very sure that your church or the ministries you follow have released their ‘guiding WORD’ for 2025? It’s important because that word is the foundation of everything you do this year. I really hope you still asked God for your own ‘guiding word’ because I did and He gave me mine. It’s important to have a personal encounter and relationship with God in spite of what you receive from church.

I declare that this will be the year where we find total peace in our lives. Let nothing be missing and nothing broken in our lives. May we live in great health and abundance and see the end of 2025 victoriously. Let it be so and so it is in Jesus’ name. AMEN!

XOXO,

Lady Abena.


Ready Or Not?

I’ve had the honor of counseling a few people who reached out to me during this holiday season and the bottom line is that they were depressed and anxious about the year coming to an end and ushering in a new year while they feel unaccomplished in the dreams and goals they had for this year. I listened empathetically and some with sympathy and I can boldly share that God gave each of us a unique manual for our lives. Our experiences differ and so are our challenges but through it all, He is the same Lord and the bible says that He is rich unto all who call upon Him. He does not discriminate. (Romans 10:12 paraphrased).

If you’re like me who spends the holiday season reflecting on my year and taking inventory of everything that happened in and around my life this year, you can find yourself in the space of deflation and anxiety and yes it even happens to the strongest of believers. Fact still remains that whether you’re ready or not, 2025 is just a couple of days away and you can embrace it with strength, hope and courage or you can embrace it with fear. I pray you choose hope and courage over anything else the devil might present to you. That you will remember that God is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask for or think, according to His power which works in us. (Ephesians 3:20 paraphrased).

We do not know what lies ahead in 2025 but I know the one who holds my life and yours and He says His plans for us are good, to prosper us and give us hope and a great future so hold on to that promise this week as you usher in 2025. (Jeremiah 29:11 paraphrased).

XOXO,

Lady Abena.


My New Kind Of Christmas

The most wonderful time of the year is just a couple of days away and it is a different one for me this year. To start with, I buried my father a couple of months ago so honestly I’m not in the mood for all the decor and tree setup and the pomp and glam that I usually go for during this season. It doesn’t also help that his birthday is on December 28 and same time last year my dad was alive. I find myself wanting to seclude and reflect and just enjoy a solemn season with less distractions.

Notwithstanding, I found something that blesses and fulfills me more - giving to orphans and people in need especially during this season. Christmas can be overwhelming for those of us who have so many people in our contact list. Let’s not talk about the gift exchanges - whew! I prayed hard and decided on a new tradition for me which requires a sacrifice on my part. I’ll give a gift to my son who was my Christmas present from God in 2016 and I have to honor December 25 in his life until eternity finds me. The rest of my giving goes to orphanages and other charitable organizations who support children in need. For everyone else in my life, I will bless them on their birthdays as God enables me to.

Yup, imagine the relief that came on me this season, very profound and I’m at peace with this new tradition of mine going forward. I’m curious to know what some of your traditions are for Christmas and whatever they are, I pray that you will make the most of this season and be a blessing to those in need.

Merry Christmas!

Lady Abena.