Holding Onto Hope
A few years ago I was listening to a prayer my mom was making and what she said stuck with me for good. She prayed that “when the promises are delayed, our hope begins to fade so Lord, come quick.” Almost every time that prayer rings in my spirit. Looking at the clock, 2025 is almost coming to an end if you are waiting for something good to happen, like a breakthrough, healing, reconciliation, or a blessing that has not yet come, you’re not alone.
It can be challenging to hold onto hope when the timing isn’t clear and answers feel far out in the distance. There's a scripture that rings true above ALL our doubts and fears - Luke 1:37
"For nothing will be impossible with God."
This is a powerful reminder that God's capabilities far exceed our understanding. What may seem impossible today is entirely within His power to bring to pass tomorrow. You should not lose heart - keep believing. Keep praying. Keep trusting that His plans are perfect, and nothing is too difficult for Him. Sometimes, our greatest miracles are born from seasons of waiting so hold on tight to hope and remember always that with God, ALL things are possible.
I pray for you this week that your breakthrough will not be delayed any longer. Let your faith be fueled by the unwavering truth that God's promises never fail. Let this be so in your life in Jesus’ name. AMEN!
XOXO,
Lady Abena.
Why Our Ears Sometimes Turn Off
I think a proper title for this blog would have been “The Truth Taboo” but, let me keep you intrigued. I hope you’ve been well lately and all is ‘kosher’ at your end. I’ve been doing a lot of deep thinking in the recent times - reviewing people, situations and circumstances more closely than I used to. It seems like most people avoid wanting to hear the truth. I mean, they’ll rather you look the other way or pretend like you did not even notice what’s wrong. At first I was very confused because pretense is not my strong suit but as I delved deeper into the various situations, I came up with several reasons why people turn their ears off from hearing the truth.
For most people, the truth can be uncomfortable because it challenges their beliefs, self-esteem, or current perceptions. When they have to face difficult realities, it might evoke feelings of guilt, shame, or fear of change, making denial or avoiding tempting options.
Some people also fear the consequences of truth, for example, the truth might damage relationships, cause them to face criticism, or risk being embarrassed. Sometimes, the truth conflicts with personal or societal narratives that provide comfort or stability, leading some individuals to prefer ignorance over discomfort. In some cases, there’s a natural human tendency to protect oneself from emotional pain or upheaval. Avoiding the truth can also be a defense mechanism designed to preserve a sense of control or self-image.
The reasons are countless but the weight and burden of carrying or living a lie supersedes all these reasons for hearing the truth. While the truth can be tough, I strongly believe that embracing it often leads to growth, understanding, and better decisions. The bible tells us in Ephesians 4:25 (NIV) that we must put off falsehood and speak truthfully to each other for we are all members of one body (Paraphrased). So, why can’t we just be truthful to one another and ease off from the burden of carrying a pretense or having to look the other way?
My prayer this week is that we will all be empowered to encourage open and compassionate communication that can help create a safe space where people feel more willing to confront difficult realities. Embracing the truth will help us deal with issues in a much healthier way to bring about growth and peace. Always remember that FORGIVENESS is available to all.
XOXO,
Lady Abena.
Declarations For September 2025
Welcome to the month of September, a month of divine birthing, for fresh hope, renewal, and trusting in God’s divine plans for our lives. Anchor your hearts and minds on Isaiah 66:7-13:
"Before she was in labor, she gave birth; before her pain came, she delivered a boy. Who has heard of such a thing? Who has seen such a thing? Will a land be born in one day? Will a nation be brought forth all at once? As soon as Zion travailed, she also brought forth her sons. Shall I bring to the birth, and not cause to be delivered?” says the Lord; or shall I cause to be delivered, and shut the womb?” says your God. “Rejoice with Jerusalem, and be glad for her, all you who love her; rejoice with her in joy, all you who mourn over her— that you may nurse and be satisfied with her comforting breasts, that you may drink deeply with delight from her glorious abundance.”
Declare with me;
- This month, I declare that new seasons of breakthrough and divine restoration are upon me. Just as a land is born in a moment, God will birth new opportunities, hopes, and blessings in my life. His promises are sure, and His plans for me are good, even when I face challenges.
- I will rejoice and be glad, trusting that God’s comfort and abundance are overflowing in my life. As I embrace whatever lies ahead, I know that God is with me, guiding me through labor pains into a future filled with purpose, joy, and divine fulfillment.
- This September, I walk in faith, expectant of His marvelous works, and I celebrate the new things He is doing in and through me.
Let this be so and so it is in Jesus’ name. AMEN!
XOXO,
Lady Abena.